When life Gives Lemons!

When I was in a dark place you showed the light to me and helped me find my way back...
Whenever you had a tear in your eye I would wipe it off... I would do everything possible to never let u be sad!
When I would be in pain (physical or emotional), you would give me a sense of calm, a sense of balance!
You give me sooo much patience and I give u sooo much motivation!
I help you to get in tune with your emotions and to introspect!
You give me the strength to realise and posses the power that I have within me, not by giving me something external but by teaching me to have inner peace!
When the times are tough we both try to find happiness in every little moment together and beauty in every little thing!!
Someone rightly said-
"Love is about giving each other power and freedom and not about control and possession!!!"

To all those people who think that life is a bed of roses for us!
You know what? It is... With all the Thorns and all!!!
But instead of pricking and hurting each other with those thorns just because one is in pain oneself, together we choose to remove those thorns one by one so that we can enjoy the beauty of the roses!!!

There's a saying "when life gives you lemons, make lemonade"
I'd like to add to this "and that you cant just go around spraying lemon juice into other people's eyes just because u are unhappy with the lemons"
And even if you do (by mistake) hurt your loved one at any point in time why not choose to own up to it and take responsibility for your actions instead of blaming other people, things, circumstances etc etc! Own up to it and make the change, not just to keep your loved ones happy but for being a better person yourself...

The key to do this is:-
1. Accept/Admit (your mistakes and flaws).
2. Apologise (if it has hurt anyone).
3. Alter (your behaviour, habits, lifestyle if needed).

You cant keep hurting people you love, your near n dear ones just cuz you are hurting!
Remember We get together into a relationship to grow and to get better as people not to be in misery!
So try to change, Be the change!

I'd like to end with one of my favourite Celine Dion Song.... Because you loved me!

I Don’t Know What Love Is?

......................A simple love story of a complicated girl.

 

She always considered herself as a rebel, a fighter and a survivor. Destiny had not always done right by her. Sorrow, she considered, was a faithful friend to her and she learnt to live with it through painful and difficult times.

As a child, she had a troubled upbringing. Her parent, though they “loved” each other, could not stand the sight of each other! She saw violence everyday; and she didn’t want to be like them. Little did she know, that this data was getting imprinted on her subconscious without even her knowing it!

In her teenage years she had a pathetic relationship with a guy who abused her, mentally and physically. But she couldn’t escape it, because subconsciously she knew, only this kind of relationship works. Somehow, she succeeded to rid herself from this horror and moved to another city. There she kept herself engrossed in education and kept herself away from relationships and men in general. But somewhere, deep down inside her, she never gave up on love. Soon to her surprise she fell into another relationship, this time with food!

That was a long story until one day she became around 30 pounds overweight and decided she had to do something about it. She did and succeeded in it. Looked better than ever and now that she was pretty again, she wanted to explore the possibility that, she still might have a chance at love. Many relationships later, she found a guy who she fell deeply in love with. Problem was, he was ‘not sure if he was ready for love’. She again suffered a deep and painful heartbreak, as she had put her heart out once again and was left disappointed and shattered.

This time, she decided, to totally give up on finding love. The voice inside her said, “Not any more, not any more”. And then something miraculous happened! The next day she met a guy, and she was shocked to know that he shared his name with the guy who just broke her heart. It was movie like, romance bloomed and loved blossomed in no time at all, and before she knew it, they fell deeply in love with each other. It seemed too simple and too good to be true, but there it was, in front of her, the guy of her dreams. They had so much passion, they could not hide it! Sure, they did have their share of upheavals in their relationship but, it was simple to fall in love this time. Happily ever after, not sure about that, but still in love, for sure!

 

                                                                                                          Based on a true story.